Work on yourself - not your "bod", not a warped perception of outward "confidence" to entice girls, but developing a personality, interests and a real sense of self-esteem and self-worth that doesn't include or is based on needy desperation for a girlfriend. Stop thinking about getting in a relationship or getting laid. It's utter garbage, it's ignorant, it's whiny, it's a poor attempt at justifying why you fail in relationships and it's a poor excuse for not having a good personality. This skincrawlingly creepy as hell "they want to produce the best offspring" rubbish, and insinuating we're all shallow and only want partners we can show off. And the same to all of the other men on TSR who try various coping methods because they can't form a relationship. Naturally they are going to want to be with a man they can be proud of when out and about, naturally they are going to want to produce the best offspring etc so why would they get with a ugly guy? If you fake confidence and make an attempt on a girl and she rejects you its not that bad, there's plenty other girls right ? But after hit after hit, you start to question whether your just universally unattractive, you develop huge insecurities etc consequently your even more unattractive and your worth even less in the eyes of women. Being an ugly guy just leads you to a viscous circle which if your lucky enough will break one day but otherwise you will be in a dark pit for a lot of your life. The thing with being a guy is that your expected to be confident, secure and generally good with women. It doesn't hold me back in the slightest, I have a tight unit of close friends who like me for who I am, I make friends with ease and Im generally a positive and easy going person but im really ugly. A lot of you will question why I made the thread if I am as confident as I say the reality is deep inside I know that im hideous looking, every time I walk past a mirror I feel a pang in my heart as I'm reminded what everyone else is looking at. Im not shy in any way, people who know me would tell you I have the confidence of a boss, im very charismatic and you either love me or hate me. Im not angry at women, naturally they are going to want to be with a man they can be proud of when out and about, naturally they are going to want to produce the best offspring etc so why would they get with a ugly guy ?
Before you judge me know that im no bassets, I have a social life, I workout 3 x a week, I have multiple girls who are friends and I have actually made effort when it comes to girls only to have been rejected every time. Im just a bit pissed off at how difficult life can be for an unattractive guy. No doubt has this type of thread been made numerous times but after a really **** day I need to release some of this negative thinking i've been brooding about.